God, I'm even tired of typing the name.
The Atlantic published an article that says everything I think about the book/movie, good and bad. The author, Emma Greene, says it better than I can or have:
Consent isn't Enough.
In the meantime, long-time writers of BDSM erotica — people who are brave enough to say, yeah, we do this stuff for real — have put out a FREE sampler of BDSM erotica. It's free, people. You can download it and be cuddled up with the finest BDSM smut around in no time flat.
Beyond 50 Erotica Sampler
While Valentine's Day is nice, my favorite holiday is February 15. So, if you'll excuse me, I'm gonna curl up with my copy of the Sampler and a gigantic box of half price chocolate.